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I Refuse To Let Go

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Hello everyone! It’s been a while. Been having crazy longs days but school is almost over and I will finally have some well-deserved vacation.

Today is Sunday and it means family time in this household. It also means working on some orders. I’ve been pretty lucky with my clients who are patient enough to wait and know that I have a day job and work on my little online shop on weekends or when I get the time. I always look forward to weekends because doing crafts is like therapy for me. It’s like getting a foot spa, when you feel relaxed while having your feet massaged. That’s what it does for me.

I still use some of my first and cheap old tools. Yes, call me a hoarder or stubborn but I can’t seem to throw them away. I even use them to this day even if I have some ergonomic and more expensive tools. There are probably a few old tools you just can’t part with.

Happy Sunday, everyone!

No Clash of Tongues

To speak or not to speak the first language?

“Proficiency in the first language determines or influences one’s capacity to acquire another language.”

I’m on Yahoo News Philippines today. I was interviewed by a journalist and asked about my opinion on using our first language as a medium of instruction in school. For those of you from other countries who have no issues on using your first language in school, this might sound foreign to you. Here in my beloved Philippines, we have hundreds and thousands of languages because we are an archipelago (group of islands) in South East Asia.  But we use English as our medium of instruction in school. Heck, we are more comfortable speaking English than our national language, Filipino.

Early last year, the Department of Education has mandated to use the mother tongue (Cebuano for us here in Cebu) as a medium of instruction in schools. Some say that the promotion of Cebuano/first language may interfere with the mastery of English.

Please click the link here or read below. The Erojo mentioned is me :) I’ve underlined them and the last paragraph were my answers. Let me know your thoughts. I’d like to emphasize however, that this is my opinion and that in no way am I imposing such stand to any person or organization. Violent reactions are most welcome.

For Japanese student Keiko Abe, Cebuanos’ ease with English in and outside classrooms is a reason she is studying in Cebu City.

And the University of the Philippines Cebu junior, who chose to move from Manila to Cebu three years ago, enjoys this bonus: “Cebu can offer better service (at a) lower price,” training foreigners like her on English as a second language (ESL).

Yet in this Central Visayas province where education tourism is helping drive the economy, English is not the only language getting attention from Cebuanos.

Cebuano, the mother tongue, is at the center of an impassioned drive to preserve and promote local heritage.

Under the K to 12 Basic Education Program launched this schoolyear by the Department of Education, Cebuano is one of 12 mother tongue languages introduced to the curriculum to facilitate learning at the primary level.

This early, critics fear that learning the mother tongue alongside Filipino and English will overburden first-graders.

The promotion of Cebuano also worries Abe who fears it may interfere with Cebuanos’ mastery of English. “The Philippines is an English-speaking country, but it doesn’t mean that everyone possesses the skill to speak fluently like native speakers,” she said.

It’s not a perception shared by educators and language experts.

“Proficiency in the first language determines or influences one’s capacity to acquire another language,” said Marryl Giela Erojo, a Maryland-certified special educator who teaches Early Childhood Education at Sacred Heart School-Ateneo de Cebu.

She points to countries with the “best educational system,” like Norway, Finland and Japan, that use their first language as medium of instruction.

“Most Filipinos have a good command of the English language, not because we speak it often but because we were taught well,” she said.

Erojo said the exodus of teachers for overseas jobs is the real challenge for Filipinos. Teachers also now need to develop appropriate materials to teach in the mother tongue.

Despite finding it “a bit challenging” to use Cebuano as medium of instruction with students of different ethnicities, many of whom either fluently speak English or desire to be more proficient, Erojo favors the K to 12 promotion of the mother tongue as foundation for learning in Filipino and English.

“We have for the longest time insisted on English as our medium of instruction yet we seem to have brushed off the fact that we are all estranged from our Filipino heritage as a result of that,” she said. “It’s alarming that only a few seem to see that problem. We seem to be trying so hard to sound American, think American and look American. Clearly, the Filipino is slowly losing his identity.”

Jesus B. Garcia Jr. remembers learning English in school “at the expense of the Cebuano language.” Students were penalized then for speaking Cebuano within the school premises, said the chairman of the board of Sun.Star Publishing Inc., which produces Sun.Star Cebu, an English daily; Sun.Star Superbalita, a Cebuano daily; and Bisdak Magasin, a Cebuano weekly magazine.

“The Cebuano language, it seemed, was a second-class language that had to be rapidly replaced with English if one is to be considered cultured or educated,” he said.

To get past this bias, Garcia translated into Cebuano Kahlil Gibran’s The Prophet and self-published Ang Propeta in 2009.

That same year, Akademiyang Bisaya (The Visayan Academy of Arts and Letters Foundation Inc.), of which Garcia is a member, published the first edition of The English-Visayan-Cebuano Dictionary.

The project took 10 years to complete as different organizations were consulted to standardize Cebuano orthography, grammar and syntax.

The sustained promotion of Cebuano, however, is not supposed to eclipse Cebuanos’ mastery of English.

“Akademiyang Bisaya’s promotion of the Cebuano-Visayan language is not anchored on the government’s K to12 policy but on DECS Department Order No. 74, which mandates the use of one’s first language—the language of one’s family and community—to learn Filipino and English,” said Garcia. “This mandate implements the findings of Unesco…that proficiency in second and third languages can be acquired more effectively if one starts with one’s native language.”

UP Cebu senior Charisse Ursal supports Akademiya’s promotion of Cebuano but believes many Cebuanos will choose to hone their English skills as it will be more profitable for them. Ursal said it is her command of English that has enabled her to earn even before graduation, as a correspondent of the Philippine Daily Inquirer.

LlorenEnglish language trainer Gregg Lloren sees proficiency in English as a ticket for Filipinos to escape drudgery. Of all the clients he has trained to pass English proficiency tests, he found the most fulfillment helping butchers, who sometimes went to class with bloodied shirts, apply for an Australian working visa.

Like Erojo and Garcia, poet and writer Gémino H. Abad sees no clash between English and Cebuano.

Initiatives promoting local heritage, especially the mother tongue, were not diluting but even empowering Cebuanos’ mastery of English, said the UP Diliman University professor of English and Comparative Literature who lived in Cebu until he was 10.

“The more languages I have, the better for me as a writer,” Abad said. “You lose a language, you lose a way of perception.”

He added that the country’s rich body of works in Spanish, English and indigenous languages other than Filipino argued for sensitivity and diplomacy in promoting languages to avoid “linguistic imperialism.”

Observing how her daughter Bea, at five, speaks better English while also learning to express in Cebuano, Erojo believed that, linguistically, one can have the best of all worlds through education. “I find it an insult to my being a Filipino if I am unable to speak, write and understand my first language. As a Filipino mother, it is my role to teach her that.”

Wedding Foot Jewelry

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I love DIY Weddings and brides who take on the challenge to make their weddings extra special and unique. I too was a DIY bride six years ago and up to this day, I still think it was one of the happiest days for a self-proclaimed crafter like me.

Having my little online shop gives me a great excuse to craft. Seriously! It’s like doing my favorite pastime (Crafts & DIY) and get paid for doing it! BLISS. Not only that, I get an excuse to do some wedding accessories that is unique and creative. I get all sorts of requests from the moss-green wedding ring pillow to really cool and unique bouttonierres.

Last week, I was asked to do a wedding foot jewelry or some call it Toe Thongs. Yes, bling for the feet. I guess this is great for Beach-themed weddings or even for photo shoots.

I made a simple Foot Jewelry made of rhinestone and clear crystal beads. The bride wanted something inexpensive so I opted for those kinds of beads and chose the rhinestone to make it look more elegant but not pricey.

I would definitely try making these foot jewelry again using some wiring techniques and some swarovski crystals. That will definitely look stunning. Meantime, what do you think about my first attempt?

If you’re from Cebu and would like some personalized wedding accessories, please LIKE us on Facebook Marryl’s

Arm Candies

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It’s a beautiful rainy Tuesday afternoon in my part of the world. It’s this kind of weather that gets me excited and feeling a little creative. At least for today.

After so many views on my DIY Braided Suede Cord Tutorial, I’ve decided to make more and have been making lots more for friends who are craft-challenged ( or so they say). What began as a simple DIY braided cord bracelet has now grown to a collection of different bracelets that I use and have in fact sold some of them. Surprisingly, the rage on arm candies is still here.

Arm candies are stacks of bracelets in different colors and materials and if combined properly, will add an interesting focal point to your wardrobe. Not to mention, it’s super fun stacking them.

Here are some that I’ve made.

The bracelet above are three stacks of bracelets: Tiffany blue leather wrap bracelet with crystal studs, chunky gold chains and Chinese round turquoise beads.

The one below are also three stacks of Bracelets: Round Chinese Turquoise, chunky gold and silver spikes in white leather bracelet.

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This bracelet below  are also three stacks of bracelets: Sunny Yellow satin cord intertwined chain bracelet with toggle closure. Silver Spikes in White leather and chunky gold bracelet.

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This one is in royal blue  satin cord intertwined chain bracelet with toggle closure, chunky gold chains with toggle closure and earth-wrapped royal blue bracelet with toggle closure.

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What do you guys think? Do you love arm candies? Can you share some pictures of your stacks?

If you’re from Cebu, you may check my work and classes here.

Our Family’s Gratitude Jar

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I saw a tweet last month about this ‘gratitude jar’ where you start the year with an empty jar and you fill it with notes of wonderful things that has happened all through out the year. Things that you are thankful for so that by the end of the year, you will have filled the jar. Read it on Christmas or New Year’s Eve and it will remind you of the many things you’re grateful for. It’s like counting your blessings, not the misfortunes. It’s our family’s gratitude jar that means the three of us can write down something wonderful that happened and we place it in the jar.

It’s a reminder for the three of us to live our life with love, joy, passion and purpose. That life is not about living for others or what they will have to say. However, it also is about going beyond selfish desires and becoming an inspiration to live a purposeful life. Our little princess goes to a Jesuit school and as young as five, they are taught the latin motto Ad Majoren Dei Gloriam and Magis. That in everything you do, strive for excellence by doing more to become MORE. Such big words really but that’s what everything boils down to, I guess.

If you’re wondering what are some of the things we wrote down, here are some:

1. Mommy – Today we had lunch with the the family and  with Papa. (My Dad is home from the US for a Christmas vacation and that day we had lunch buffet with one of my brothers and my 60 year old father, most of my cousins, uncles and aunts. The rest of my family are in the US. SO it was a good day!)

2. Daddy – I got the highest score for the Premidterm exams in Obligations and Contracts. (The husaband  is in law school)

3. Bea – I got excellent grades. ( My daughter’s report card showed excellent grades and we’re proud of her!)

Those are samples of what we write down and drop in the jar. As for our five-year-old daughter, she’s at the right age where she is learning to write beautifully, but she has to ask the spelling for most words.

I purposely placed it in our craft / study room because it’s like our second family room. We gather in that tiny room most days. Our little princess is always in that room getting our stuff especially papers. My hubby studies there everyday. I have my treasures there (no not my jewelries) – my jewelry-making tools, felt fabrics, other fabrics and my bead stash that has a life of their own now (wink! wink!).

What are you thankful for?